Small penis complex kills sexuality

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Extract from the article: «Is my penis too small? » «Am I the right size? » These questions are often on the minds of many men, who are often afraid that they won't be able to please their wives without saying so. But do many men really have such a small penis that they can't

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«Is my penis too small? » «Am I the right size? » These questions are often on the minds of many men, who are often afraid that they won't be able to please their wives without saying so. But do many men really have such a small penis that they can't satisfy their wives?

The fear of a small penis is often triggered after watching a pornographic film in which a man with a good «member» is shown performing fantastic feats. They immediately try to compare themselves to him and wonder if they can really measure up to him, especially when their penis is not as huge as the actor's. Understand that cinema is cinema and that it's all just an act. Your penis isn't as small as that. It's the norm and it's a complex that you develop in your head.

What is the normal size of the penis?

Studies show that the average penis size is 7 to 11 cm at rest and 10 to 20 cm when erect; the world average is 14 cm. There is no relationship between the size at rest and the size when erect. Some penises are quite small at rest, but grow considerably when erect, while others are quite large at rest, less elastic and grow very little during arousal.The penis increases in size at the start of puberty and reaches its final size at the end of puberty, i.e. around the age of 17.

This is a small penis with no other abnormalities. According to French sex therapist and psychoanalyst Alain Héril, «micropenis occurs ‘when the size of the penis does not exceed 3 centimetres at rest and 6 centimetres during erection». The causes are varied and not always identified. They include hormonal insufficiency, tissue insensitivity and obesity. Many men say they have a small penis and wonder how they can increase its size. According to sex therapist Alain Héril, this requires surgery.However, this is only possible in the case of a micropenis. «It's important to be wary of products on sale, whether creams or penis enhancers, which give the illusion that you're going to increase the size of your penis. In fact, it's just like blow-ups. You get the impression that your sex is bigger than usual, but in the end and after a certain amount of time, the opposite effect is obtained. The important thing for men to remember is to adapt to the size of their penis and know how to use it to give their wife pleasure», he advises. 

Does penis size influence pleasure?

The sex therapist's answer to this question is clear, direct and in line with all the surveys that have been carried out among women: «penis size is not necessarily what women are looking for most in terms of pleasure.  What they want from men is not to have a big penis, but to know how to use it well, and it's important for men to bear this in mind so as to play down the link they have with the size of their penis».

What's more, the average size of a girl's vagina is between 7 and 10 cm, and only the front of the vagina has pressure-sensitive receptors.The inside of the vagina is sensitive to pressure, so it's better to have a hard erection than a long one.

Elom AKAKPO